It used to be considered normal for a guy to talk to a random girl he found pretty. That's how your dad met your mom.
she wasn't "random" at all, no , they met in school because they had classes together and my mom was a virgin when they married. repeated unplanned interactions are a necessary ingredient in building human interpersonal relationships, but that shit doesn't happen anymore, least of all after compulsory school, by design.
add in that women's lib means girls are all whores now, so men treat them like whores. that means some guys fuck em while most guys, who don't want a whore, avoid em. simple as. and of course the interracial cherry on top. even the thought that a girl I like might have fucked a brown subhuman at some point is so disgusting that I'll avoid most women on principal because 5% of them are niggerfucking coalburners, and because they're all slutty, the nigger diseases spread through most of the population. one drop of shit ruins the whole pot of soup.
and none of that is even broaching the topic of women being allowed in the workplace before they have children and how insanely damaging that has been to birth rates and gender relations at large.