I was making dinner in the kitchen earlier. My partner and my 13 yr old daughter (I’ll call her V) were watching The Simpsons. Through the serving hatch, I saw the frame of Bart Simpson in the future when he’s really fat and is saying “I wash myself with a rag on a stick”.
V laughs and says “That looks like Mum”. I’m shocked at first, and my heart sinks. I try to convince myself that I probably misheard her, or missed another joke elsewhere. At the scene where Homer is trying to stop the nuclear thing from exploding and he’s wearing that muumuu, my partner says “looks like your mother in a dress” and they both laugh.
Am I just being sensitive, or is this just mean rather than joking? And do I ask my partner about it?